REAL TALK WEDNESDAY: THE WOMAN OR THE HOE

So one of my coworkers who I consider a close friend and I was having one of our normal day at work conversations, and during our talk. I came upon a question that I know a lot of people have been asked or just heard before, but has always been a sensitive subject to ever get a "good" answer. The question I came upon was. Why if a women that sleeps with a different man consider a Hoe among both man and woman but if a man sleeps with a different woman, he is considered "The Man" among his boyz and "Experience "among the woman? Do you think that is right or wrong? Do you think just the concept of sleeping  with a different person of the opposite sex is just wrong to begin with or do you think people or some people in general need to grow up. I want to know. The concept of a woman being on the "same level" as a man in my own opinion is just great. I am a person of equal rights among color and gender. In the past when woman were considered good for only three things such as laying on they back , bearing kids and stay home moms is no longer that now anymore. Now woman are the driving force behind a man like for example Michelle Obama behind Barack Obama and working woman like a lot of our moms, wife's, girlfriends ect.. But if woman are now doing pretty much the same thing a man is doing, why when it comes to the subject of "women having sex with a different man" she is consider a hoe? I would think a woman would be on the same grounds as a man regardless of if she is "suppose to be lady". I do agree that woman should be a lady most of the times, but don't judge her in a negative way base on what she wants to do with her body when you have the opposite sex doing the same exact thing. If a woman want to go and "have fun" with a different man as long as she is not selling herself to get money, that is her right to do so and she will deal with any repercussion that might come her way. That's all for today, so let me know your Idea's on this subject.  

MOVIE THURSDAY: UP UP AND AWAY

So this week, one of our favorite superhero's comes to the wide screen. Yes!, I am talking about "Man of Steel". I am very excited to see how this version of Superman is going fix all the past Superman movies after Christopher Reeve who was once known as the man of steel. The past Superman movies after Christopher Reeve was in my opinion the worst or could have done better. I personally think that the best person who played superman was Christopher Reeve. He just owned the role and almost made you believe that he really had super powers. Now we have a new intake on the story to Superman and a new actor and from what I saw from the trailers, it looks like this version of Superman will for sure fix the past Superman and start a exciting future of the HERO.

REAL TALK WEDNESDAY: SAFE SEX IS THE BEST SEX

                             " STD from hell: Gonorrhea HO41 might be worse than AIDS "

 
So you know how you come to work expecting to hear good news or get some laughs in. Well today was a little different. The first thing I hear from one of my coworkers is "I hope you are having safe sex".... Now when you hear that from anyone, the first expression on your face is the "confuse face" with the thoughts that "Dose this person know who I am having sex with" or "Is there something about my sexual life that this person knows that I don't know". Well to find out, it has nothing to do with my current sexual status. But it has to do with everyone, including me. We would like to believe that we live in a "Perfect" world, but sadly; we don't. Apparently, there is a powerful STD which is call GONORRHEA HO41(Put you into septic shock and death in a matter of days)that is worst then AIDS. In the short run because the bacteria is more aggressive, it will affect more people quickly as per Alan Christianson; who is a doctor of naturopathic medicine. This sexually-transmitted disease was discovered in Japan two years ago and only now the "sex super bug" was found in Hawaii. So people I know "going raw" feels great and I am not going to lie, I do like "dipping in the ocean nude". But this days, we have to be much more wiser of what or whom we do. So is a emotionless encounter with a stranger worth it?

VID SUNDAY: "DESPICABLE" - Portuguese anti-racism advert

I just like watching this video every time. It is by time certain people know that, STOP BEING A RACIES. Treat people with the equal respect that you would want in return. And come on, there is better things to worry abut in the world like "Hunger", "Death" and "Terrorism".

COMICS/MANGA SATURDAY: FAIRY TAIL- GRAY...DIED?

So!....how can I start this?....ummm...So Gray pull a very heroic act and step in the way of Juvia and was shot in the chest many times by those "foot soldiers dragons" as if it was like one of those Mob movies, right after he looked like he was going to confess he feelings to Juvia like one of those romance novels.We all know that Fairy Tail is coming to an end and some of use do know that before this series end, something unexpected is going to happen. But I would not believe that this would have been the unexpected moment. I really do hope that Gray getting killed was some illusion or he was dreaming. 

FASHION FRIDAY SPECIAL EDITION: WHY?

Sorry, but I just have to bring it out. Whats up with everyone wanting to rock fitted clothing, listen to rock music and wear dunks this days? I remember back in the days when fitted Clothing and Dunks was not Blazing like today and was considered Gay to most people, I remember when I use to buy Dunks less then $100 before it came in high demand, I remember when I use to rock fitted jeans and people would get at me calling me gay, I remember being in school rocking dunks that not much people had and it mad be fill good,I remember listening to Rock music and people just did not understand why I listen to that type of music. Those was the days. Now we got people wanting to be someone they not or be part of the trend, but the trend has always been out for years and only the real people that was or still wearing it are the real Trend setters, not y'all.  SO STOP SWAGGER JACKING 4 REAL, IT DON'T LOOK GOOD ON U THEN DA NEXT PERSON YA DIG

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MOVIE THURSDAY: SHAWSHANK REDEMPTION

This is a movie that I think a lot of people should just see. When this movie was first brought to my attention like a year ago. I never saw it and at first I was a little discontent to even watch it. But due to a co-worker movie knowledge and his amazing insight on great movies, which to this very day I keep checking on him for a nice movie to watch; I look the movie up on Netflix and watched it. I really don't know what it was, but like for the first 5-10mins of watching the movie. It just grab my full attention and just have me wanting to watch more and more. So if you are someone who would like to enjoy a nice classic movie, watch Shawshank Redemption.

REAL TALK WEDNESDAY: LABELS

The word FRIEND is a word that we are very familiar with, right? If you don't really know, let me give you the definition that is given in the dictionary. FRIEND: A person whom one knows, likes, and trusts. Now that you have gotten familiar with the definition, let me give you my definition. FRIEND: A person whom you think you have created a close bond or in other words created a FRIENDSHIP, which sometimes never last for to long. Now at this point, you already think you know what this post is about. I am truly sorry that I have to be the one to tell you, but you are what people call JUDGMENTAL. Now, how do you feel that you were told that you are judgmental? Do you feel ANGRY, do you feel SAD, are you HAPPY that the truth was told to you, or do you think all this about you being judgmental is a bunch of bull shit. Well the answer is this is a bunch of bull shit that I used to get your attention. But one thing I would say to you, if you truly believe you are actually judgmental. I am thankful that I told you something friends have hidden from you. "The truth hurts, but for the greater good. It needs to be told". Now that I have gotten your full attention, lets get to what this is really about. Please don't judge me because I am not a cold heated person or friendless. I just see that Labels are exactly what it is, a WORD that is MEANINGLESS. For example, I have seen many people fast to use that word "Friend" (or Girlfriend, Boyfriend, Husband, Wife etc..) to just use as a label for someone as if they were a piece of meat on the market. If we consider ourselves the height of evolution, why do we have to subject ourselves to give meaningless labels to everything unless it is a invented product. Personally, I just think giving labels to someone you might consider a comrade or lover would complicate things much more especially labels that have very strong emotional meaning. Do you think if we don't label someone as a FRIEND or LOVER  and then you and that person had a fall out (can not be friends or lover). Do you think it would be painful or painless? Hummm! is what a lot of people would say to this question. Since this is not a question that people normally would be asked. I truly believe that if we just know someone as a friend or lover (without giving them that label) for years and later on, y'all brake up/ stop being friends. It would be much easier to move on without subjecting yourself to embarrassing moments and just remember the great moments you had with that person. That is all till next tuesday. Enjoy the rest of your day!   

VIDS SUNDAY: HISTORY OF GETTIN LITE

That is just amazing, I always thought that "Getting Lite" was a new school dance. Well now I know that the dance was right back then and is still getting lite now

COMICS/MANGA SATURDAY: FAIRY TAIL- DEATH TO ROGUE

So did any of my Manga readers saw this week Fairy Tail. This Dragon vs. Human battle is getting very interesting. The more and more the battle goes one, the more you get an insight on different characters especially Natsu. But one thing that caught my attention, was the ending. KILLING PRESENT ROGUE(who is still a good person) TO PREVENT A FUTURE WHERE THE FUTURE ROGUE WOULD COME BACK TO THE PAST AND DO WHAT HE IS DOING NOW. What you think of that? Do you believe that killing NOW Rogue is right and it will prevent "now" ever happening? Or do you think that there is a better way like how Natsu original said he would do?

FASHION FRIDAY: DRAPE LIKE A BUTTERFLY, TIGHTS LIKE A BEE

LMFAO, I know as soon as you saw this title. You probably thought that "I got the saying wrong" or "this is funny or eye catching", right. But today Fashion Friday insight is about Summer Dresses vs. Jeans or shorts for women. Now hold up, I am not saying you can not wear jeans during the hot season which is summer. You can wear your jeans whenever you want too, but I just think that women should wear more summer dresses. It's a light fabric that allows more air to graze the body so you don't over heat and on top of that, it shows somewhat of a distinguish outlook on you as a women. That I personally think is a quality that a lot of women are missing this days.

MOVIE THURSDAY: LUKE, I AM YOUR FATHER

So just by the title itself, you already know what this week movie Thursday is about. So yes, I am going to be talking "Starwars". One of thee best movies ever created in my book. The concept of a Galactic war taking place somewhere in the Universe and the protectors of the peace, "The Jedi" are partaking in this war fighting the "Seth lords" of the "Dark side". At the time when this movie first appeared on the wide screen, it was every nerd, kid and movie fanatic "Molly". It opened a vivid fantasy and relatable characters. It's a movie you can always kick back to anytime especially when you and your friends or family are having a movie night.

REAL TALK WEDNESDAY: THE GAME

I am a person of deep thoughts especially when something happens that involves me. So this is just something I just found months after the terrible "relationship" was done that I dotted down in my phone, which involves me  investing two rear objects personal to me. Two rear objects that shouldn't have been subjected to being betted, but was. I put my HART & PRIDE on the line to have it thrown back in my face. But hey, that is the risks you take when dealing with an investment.

It has been months since I have been in a "relationship" or just getting to know someone to get to that status. And while I was on the "Brake", I have learn a lot from my past relationships and just knowing women in general.  All that I have learned has build a new, stronger me to handle this new breed of women or old for those who disagree with me saying "new". I told myself, I will never want to give my all to any woman in one go. Because one thing I have learned about certain women is that when they know all that is you and have digested it. They will let go of you because it's not a challenging game anymore. She has gotten the cheat sheet to you(The man) and she read you easy without a doubt. Relationships to me, is just a big game that everyone plays to make life that much interesting. There are some players that are big losers and don't know how to handle a lost and do some crazy shit, some players are great at the game(you call those A PLAYER) who know how to play the game but hate to lose and there is a small group of players who are in between those two and has not fully accepted which path they will follow. Which give them more chances at the game, learn more/know the real objective of the game and see the playing field from an eagle view. So the question you should be asking is, which of those three paths do you gravitate towards more? I will say "In between" since who would deny that...lol. But for real, I think I am a apprentice "In between". When my "Relationships" has always gone sour, at first I am upset. But when I think of it, I tell myself that this person did me a favor and set me free from the confinement of a "false investment". I may not be in the past but I can forgive but don't forget for the future. 

VIDS SUNDAY: SPANISH REMAKE

So as you might or might not know, I like spanish music. This song when I first heard it by Prince Royce, was what got me more in spainish music and became a BIG Prince Royce fan.

COMICS/MANGA SATURDAY: REUNITED TEAM 7

This issue really got me jumping up and down. To see the reunited Team 7 once more again and as they said, Better than ever. No one really saw this happening except the writer especially hearing Sasuke wanting to become Hokage. We all thought that Naruto and Sasuke would have a battle to the death or something around that line. But now, that does not look like it is going to happen. But what I do foretell is, after the war is over if Sasuke does not dies. I think that Sasuke and Naruto will have a battle to see who is the strongest and who will become the next Hokage.

FASHION FRIDAY: TO BREATHE OR NOT TO BREATHE, THAT IS THE QUESTION

I am a person who just love wearing Flip Flops during the summer. I strongly believe that during the day, you can wear flip flops to let your feet breathe more. I mean, come on. We wear so much shoes during Fall and Winter season and the only time your feet get to breathe, is when you get home and who would like someone who has stink feet. So I strongly believe that during this summer, Guys. I know some of you don't believe that "Man" should get manicure or pedicure. But trust me, women love a manly man who has clean nails and feet. So try to wear more flip flops during the day when the sun is out. But before I end this, I have to make sure everyone knows what is the right way to wear flip flops. I know you might be thinking to yourself. "It's flips flops, how can you wear it wrong". As hard as that might sound, there are some people who wear flip flops wrong and also the wrong time. I will now give you some examples of some of the wrong way some people wear flip flops and the wrong time some people wear flip flops.

EXAMPLE #1 "WRONG WAY"

Wear flip flops with socks
- So far, I have only seen Minorities wear it that way. "People, you are missing the whole reason why you wear flip flops...SMH"

EXAMPLE # 2 "WRONG TIME"

Wear flip flops during a date at a restaurant or during a club
- Yes!, I had to say this. I have been at some bars and even at a restaurant "which I will not mention the name" that someone was wearing flip flops. "People, do you remember the saying. THERE IS A TIME A PLACE FOR EVERYTHING".

MOVIE THURSDAY: FAST AND FURIOUS 6

The movie that we have all been waiting for is coming this friday. Yes! FAST AND FURIOUS 6. I already seen the movie and I personally rate it 8 STARS and I have to say, like all the previours Fast and Furious movie. This installment has a lot of action and much laughs to keep you wanting more and more. So even though I already saw it, I am still planing to see it again with some friends this weekend. So do the same and get some friends or take your girlfriend or boyfriend to see this Amazing movie this weekend. And if you can, please let me know what your thoughts on it.

MOVIE THURSDAY: 42

So I know I am super late on this, but that is only due to that fact that I just saw it. I just want to let everyone know that the movie "42", the true story behind Jackie Robinson who was an American baseball player who became the first African American to play in the Major League Baseball, The Brooklyn Dodgers. Now, if you are one of my readers. You know I will only post movies that are either good and a must see or movies that just wake in my personal opinion on "Movie Thursday". And so far, I have only posted must see movies and I am telling you that you have to see "42".

REAL TALK WEDNESDAY: HUNGRY OR STUFFED

So for the pass year or so, I have been having this "conversation" with a lot of my friends and coworkers on the subject of "EATING". Yes!, having a "three course meal" on your women. Whenever the subject comes up, I tend to be the antagonist in the conversation. Now, to remind you. I am not saying that people should not do it, I am just saying that I don't think I am going to do it at all or just on any women. The way my friends and coworkers talk about "IT", is as if we were talking about "the perfect women" or "what you like about a women in general" and fellers. You know how those conversation goes when it is on those two subjects...lol...Now, I am going to give you two examples of what those "guy talk" be like with some friends/coworkers without giving any real names.

(My definition)
GUY TALK: A way of talking that is unique to your friends or people you are talking to.

Example #1

J.L(close friend/coworker): Dude! eating a girl out and watching her expression is the best feeling ever. Just the fact that she is enjoying it, is all I need..lol.

Me: Dude! you must be joking. I can not see myself doing that. Just the fact that a lot happens down there with women, is going to make me puke. Maybe one day when I find "Wifey", I will think about it.

Example #2

A(close friend): My nigga, bitches love that shit. When I go down on a women, I become a pro diver up in that motherfucker...lol..

Me: Nahhhhh!, you keep diving and I will swim away...lol...but real talk though. I am a greedy nigga when it comes to that. I like receiving but I don't give and so far, I have gotten many givers and they never ask or pretty much care about receiving it back. And you know why? "BIG DICK STU, STAY PIPING THAT PUSSY LIKE A PRO ATHLETE"...lol..(Just want to let you know that is just me "guy talking" and that I don't talk like that)

NOW LETS START WHAT THIS IS REALLY ABOUT:
 http://www.mensjournal.com/magazine/can-oral-sex-cause-cancer-20120809
So one of my close friends/coworker post this link on Facebook on a Article that titles "CAN ORAL SEX CAUSE CANCER?" By: Men's magazine , so you can believe how that title can get my attention right away. This is a small piece of the article that pretty much sums up everything.

 "More and more men are contracting throat cancer from a shockingly common sexually transmitted disease. Here's what you need to know to protect yourself. The next time you think about going down on a woman, think about this: She is almost certain to have been infected at some point with a virus that could, years from now, give you throat cancer. The most common sexually transmitted disease in the U.S., human papillomavirus, or HPV, has been blamed for a recent, rapid increase in the incidence of throat cancer – a disease that used to be rare in people who didn't drink or smoke excessively. According to data from 2004, the most recent available, rates of HPV-related throat cancer had risen 225 percent in the previous 16 years, with men suffering the most cases. Researchers point to the increasing popularity of oral sex – often seen as safer than intercourse – among heterosexual couples, a trend that may soon lead to more male fatalities in industrialized nations from HPV-related infections than female ones – a surprising turnaround after decades when women suffered higher death rates from the virus, which also causes cervical cancer through vaginal sex". So all I will say is, the next time you are with you women or a women in general and you want to "please" her. THINK  ABOUT IF YOU ARE HUNGRY OR STUFFED.

VIDS SUNDAY: WHAT YEAR WAS YOUR YEAR

This is why I would always like old school music like from the 80's-90's. I personally think that those years had the best music. Don't get me wrong, new school music is good. But old school music had that "IT FACTOR" that was just real.