It has been months since I have been in a "relationship" or just getting to know someone to get to that status. And while I was on the "Brake", I have learn a lot from my past relationships and just knowing women in general. All that I have learned has build a new, stronger me to handle this new breed of women or old for those who disagree with me saying "new". I told myself, I will never want to give my all to any woman in one go. Because one thing I have learned about certain women is that when they know all that is you and have digested it. They will let go of you because it's not a challenging game anymore. She has gotten the cheat sheet to you(The man) and she read you easy without a doubt. Relationships to me, is just a big game that everyone plays to make life that much interesting. There are some players that are big losers and don't know how to handle a lost and do some crazy shit, some players are great at the game(you call those A PLAYER) who know how to play the game but hate to lose and there is a small group of players who are in between those two and has not fully accepted which path they will follow. Which give them more chances at the game, learn more/know the real objective of the game and see the playing field from an eagle view. So the question you should be asking is, which of those three paths do you gravitate towards more? I will say "In between" since who would deny that...lol. But for real, I think I am a apprentice "In between". When my "Relationships" has always gone sour, at first I am upset. But when I think of it, I tell myself that this person did me a favor and set me free from the confinement of a "false investment". I may not be in the past but I can forgive but don't forget for the future.