So one of my coworkers who I consider a close friend and I was having one of our normal day at work conversations, and during our talk. I came upon a question that I know a lot of people have been asked or just heard before, but has always been a sensitive subject to ever get a "good" answer. The question I came upon was. Why if a women that sleeps with a different man consider a Hoe among both man and woman but if a man sleeps with a different woman, he is considered "The Man" among his boyz and "Experience "among the woman? Do you think that is right or wrong? Do you think just the concept of sleeping with a different person of the opposite sex is just wrong to begin with or do you think people or some people in general need to grow up. I want to know. The concept of a woman being on the "same level" as a man in my own opinion is just great. I am a person of equal rights among color and gender. In the past when woman were considered good for only three things such as laying on they back , bearing kids and stay home moms is no longer that now anymore. Now woman are the driving force behind a man like for example Michelle Obama behind Barack Obama and working woman like a lot of our moms, wife's, girlfriends ect.. But if woman are now doing pretty much the same thing a man is doing, why when it comes to the subject of "women having sex with a different man" she is consider a hoe? I would think a woman would be on the same grounds as a man regardless of if she is "suppose to be lady". I do agree that woman should be a lady most of the times, but don't judge her in a negative way base on what she wants to do with her body when you have the opposite sex doing the same exact thing. If a woman want to go and "have fun" with a different man as long as she is not selling herself to get money, that is her right to do so and she will deal with any repercussion that might come her way. That's all for today, so let me know your Idea's on this subject.
Wednesday, June 19, 2013
REAL TALK WEDNESDAY: THE WOMAN OR THE HOE
So one of my coworkers who I consider a close friend and I was having one of our normal day at work conversations, and during our talk. I came upon a question that I know a lot of people have been asked or just heard before, but has always been a sensitive subject to ever get a "good" answer. The question I came upon was. Why if a women that sleeps with a different man consider a Hoe among both man and woman but if a man sleeps with a different woman, he is considered "The Man" among his boyz and "Experience "among the woman? Do you think that is right or wrong? Do you think just the concept of sleeping with a different person of the opposite sex is just wrong to begin with or do you think people or some people in general need to grow up. I want to know. The concept of a woman being on the "same level" as a man in my own opinion is just great. I am a person of equal rights among color and gender. In the past when woman were considered good for only three things such as laying on they back , bearing kids and stay home moms is no longer that now anymore. Now woman are the driving force behind a man like for example Michelle Obama behind Barack Obama and working woman like a lot of our moms, wife's, girlfriends ect.. But if woman are now doing pretty much the same thing a man is doing, why when it comes to the subject of "women having sex with a different man" she is consider a hoe? I would think a woman would be on the same grounds as a man regardless of if she is "suppose to be lady". I do agree that woman should be a lady most of the times, but don't judge her in a negative way base on what she wants to do with her body when you have the opposite sex doing the same exact thing. If a woman want to go and "have fun" with a different man as long as she is not selling herself to get money, that is her right to do so and she will deal with any repercussion that might come her way. That's all for today, so let me know your Idea's on this subject.
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